Risky Business Final

1.5 million kids every year feel like their world is falling apart after their parents divorce. The kids feels a great loss also sad, angry, and anxiety and they also feel guilty because they feel like they caused the divorce. Divorce is an big issue on the teens because after the divorce the teen starts to do differents things since their parents are divorced. Whenever a teen parents get divorced the teen becomes very angry at themselves which make them become very violent, have social adjustment, and have a change in academic performance.

While teens feel aggressive when their parents get divorce it could be a good life lesson to them. It would be good because “Kids can learn from their parents that some problems can't be fixed, and that peaceful disengagement is an alternative to remaining mired in conflict and chaos”(Alterman). “Kids of divorce achieve their education and career goals and have the ability to build close relationships." It was also reported that as many as 42 percent of young adults whose parents have divorced "received higher wellbeing scores as compared to young adults from non-divorced families”(Alterman).

Divorce is something that 1.5 million kids go through a year but, some of them will get angry at themselves which will make them aggressive since their parents divorced. For this reason many teenagers will blame themselves for their parents behaviour because it is emotionally easier to deal with.  It is common for teens  to formulate beliefs about how their behaviour is the reason their parents are divorcing. These beliefs can result in teens being angry at themselves. While being angry at themselves the teen is also likely to be very compliant and extra helpful to one or both parents as a means of trying to make up for the mess they believe they have created.

Divorce is a big deal to teens because out of the 1.5 million kids of the world go through divorce every year and most of them get a social adjustment after their parent divorce. After a teens parents get divorce they will start hanging out with different friends and stay out late with friends. They will also start giving attitude to their parents and will start doing drugs with friends and doing other stuff.

When a divorce comes a teen will feel aggressive because they think it's all their fault so they will start doing aggressive things on other people. In school will play a big role when a teen parents get divorce because they will start giving big attitude to the teacher and start missing school. They also will start not doing the work and get bad grades. Which will make the school that they go to go lower in academic and it will seem like that school is bad.

In conclusion whenever a teens parents get divoreced the teens will feel aggressive. But it could also be a good thing because it could make them have good choice in the future and could be a life lesson. Anyways divorce will cause aggression which is bad because it will lead to them being violent, having social adjustment, and have  academic problem. That's why I think aggression is bad when it come to a divorce to a teen.